Made so many improvements that I don't know how to list them. But here's a list of the important tags used for training this lora. All we can all do is play around with these in our prompts:

boy forcefully clutching girl's jaw
boy forcefully clutching girl's hair
boy forcefully clutching girl's head
boy forcefully clutching girl's throat below jaw
boy forcefully clutching ponytail_root with fisted hand

fingers forcefully pressing into soft tissue below jawbone
fingers forcefully pressing into throat
fingers [slightly] spread around cranium
fingertips pressing into cranium

hair strands radiating from grip point
tension lines in hair
disrupted hair flow
very_tight_jawgrip
very_tight_hairgrip

Usefull in negative prompt:
(soft touch), (soft contact), (gentle touch)

Enjoy playing around with this. I know I will....